From the past few years the feminists and the desi liberals are raising their voice for men women equality.
"mard aur aurat insan honay k natay bilkul barabar hen, aik hi baap k nutfay se beta bhi hy beti b hy, aik hi maa k rehm me beti ne b parwarish payi hy bete ne bhi, is aitbar se wo baraabar hein. sharaf e insani me nohe insani ki haisiyat se barabar hein."
Lets take an example of a family:
Human dignity and honor, they share both equally, absolutely equally. But when woman and a man makes a family, they are not equal anymore. Just like every human being is equal but their duties are different, an officer has different duties and authorities, while a peon has different. Similarly the relationship between a man and woman is different, and this relationship constitutes a family and families constitute societies. If the relationship is strong, so will be the family and so on, and conflicts and injustice will lead to unstable family and then unstable society. I hope you got the point here.
In the matter of divorce men and women are not equal. But in the matter of marriage they are equal. A woman can deny to marry someone if she wants, but when she has formed the bond of marriage with someone, then her husband's side weighs more. They are not equal any more. Man can give divorce to his wife, if given with injustice and unreasonably: he will have to answer about it before Allah, while a woman can not give divorce to her husband, but she can ask for Khula. Still she doesn't have the equal right to give divorce.
Similarly if one divorce was given by the man, then he can contact his woman within 3 months (iddat) and asks her to come back, then wife has no right to refuse him and she has to go back to her husband. Man has the authority but within 3 months (iddat), to take his wife back. This is called Talaq-e-Rajji.
In the present, women mostly don't like these things, and in today's world this concept of men women equality is one of the biggest philosophies of Satan, and it's biggest weapon to cause moral corruption and disturbance in the society. And family systems in our Muslim Asian countries is completely under threat. Western culture is spoiling our culture in the name of liberalism, women's independence and men women equality, just to make sure that family system destroys, as it has been completely destroyed in Western world.
Clinton once said on New Year Eve's address that in near future the majority of their nation will be consisting of bastards (born out of wedlock). There is a concept of one parent family. A lot of people there don't even know who their father is, mother is like acting father for them.
Hence, the western family system and society has been completely destroyed. And our people are trying to follow them blind folded.
The concept of this men women equality has one other angle as well. The rights Islamic Shariah has given to the women, unfortunately, we Muslims haven't given those rights to women. That is because of Hindu culture, which still haunts us. In Hindu society, women had no rights, she has no character, and if widowed she had no right to live, and no right in heritage as well. Our ancestors became Muslims but lacked the education and training, and in our minds still lies those concepts that women are nothing and have no rights. the thing we are doing is that we are not giving the rights to women they actually deserve. So without knowing we are indeed helping the Western attack to destroy our family systems to be successful.
If we won't give the rights women deserve according to Islamic Shariah, then there is a possibility that these Western slogans will seem attractive to them. We must understand what rights women have. As Muhammad(peace be upon him) said: "tum me se behtareen wo hy jo apne ghar walon k lie achay hon".
So, we should adjust ourselves according to Islamic Shariah, and give women, the rights they deserve. So they may not go for the Western culture i.e. men women equality, and enjoy the rights they actually deserve.
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